A: What is the longest you've been single in the last 2 years?

B: Four months? Maybe.

A: How were the four months?
 
B: Terrible. I was constantly lonely and feeling unloved. I hate being single, I want to be wanted.

A: "The one who goes alone can start today. The one who travels with others constantly has to wait until the others are ready."

A: I'm sorry, I just can't get behind that. I probably sound insensitive, but it just doesn't make sense to me.

A: It seems unhealthy.

B: Oh well, It is me. That is how I am.
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NO, that is just how you resign to be. You are not stuck with your emotional insecurities and personal problems! The first trick is knowing what you want to change, and you already know that. I will admit that the next part is harder, but not to an impossible degree. Oh dear girl, you are stuck because you do not yet know the value of yourself. YOU are incredible and YOU are not in need of anyone else to make you feel better. Once you realize how amazing you are all by yourself, you will be in no need of anyone else.

That kind of "love of love" is not love at all. It is fear of being alone, and that is something very much different.

These are only my thoughts on your thoughts, but I do think them strongly.

Tags: alone, desperation, fear, love, luff